Do you think that you’re not in a position to have an interesting conversation?
Sometimes women think they have not interesting things to talk about. Especially if you’re in your transformational / levelling up the journey.
With that, you now meet other kinds of people that you aren’t familiar with.
How to behave!
What to talk about!
Will these people find me interesting enough?
Questions that freak you out.
To help you! Here are 5 unexpected topics to talk about that make you more attractive.
1. Talk about unexpected sports that will surprise everyone, especially men
There are sports that everybody talks about, which makes these conversations so dull. But if you talk about sports such as F1, Tennis, Sailing, Golf, Rugby or Chess you’ve got everybody’s attention. They don’t expect YOU to have an interest in these sports. Men will be stunned.
You don’t have to know everything about these sports. But enough to keep the conversation going.
I’m a big fan of F1. Believe me, I have many times that men were surprised that I love F1. They were dying to talk with me about that topic. What keeps the conversation more interesting is that I talk about the details of F1.
Please avoid the general stuff. What I mean by this is. In F1, Lewis Hamilton dominated the sport for years. The same applies to Golf. Who doesn’t know Tiger Woods? In Tennis, everybody knows Rafael Nadal or Novak Djokovic by now.
Keeping an interesting conversation, focus more on the detailed related stuff. Little things that you notice in a sport or person.
How I see this. Start with an introduction and then ask the person in question what his opinion is.
Bear with me. I don’t expect you to be an expert on each topic. You’re just triggering the people you’re starting a conversation with.
Some interesting questions you could ask.
Introduction. You: “I find it interesting that there are new circuits on the GP calendar. It makes this F1 season more interesting and challenging. For both the driver and the fans”.
Question; “Which of the new circuits are you excited about?”
Or you can use this as a bridge to talk about another subject.
Introduction. You: “Golf is a real gentleman’s sport such as rugby. In both, you follow the rules of the game. When understanding the games, it is pleasant to look at.”
Question; “Are there other gentleman’s sports on the same level as like golf or rugby?”
See how easily, now you know the drill
2. Women don’t often talk about investing, but it is an interesting topic
Investing boring!? This is because so many people find it risky. If you put the effort in, it is the most interesting topic to talk about.
You can talk about cryptocurrency, shares, index funds, dividends and so on.
Make it even more interesting. Talk about companies or the people who are in charge. There are always interesting stories about Elon Musk and Tesla. Or about Warren Buffet and his opinion about bitcoins. You could ask casual questions.
You don’t want to go in-depth about your investments.
3. How to make Fashion more interesting. Avoid the casual stuff
When it comes to interesting conversations with women. Fashion will always have some interest. Don’t talk about regular stuff like clothes, but about the (creative) designers. How they get inspired or why they choose a specific look, and what you like about it.
Fun Facts to have interesting conversations about.
Dior’s creative director Maria Grazia Churi loves to use black in her collections. Maria’s opinion about black.
It emphasises the silhouette the best. This is not a coincidence. Maria likes to show true her collection her point of view about feminism.
“ Black is the colour of elegance”.
Victor and Rolf sustainability collections have gone wrong. They presented a collection that should be sustainable. The fun fact about this. Most garments were made of man-made fabrics. These are synthetics. So what is so sustainable about this collection?
Shoe lovers!!! Suppose you’re a shoe lover. Yet another interesting topic to talk about. Christian Louboutin started his career at Charles Jourdan. After this, he started his own brand. I, myself, have never heard of Charles Jourdan, but his shoes are beautiful.
A shoe makes a woman look sexy and beautiful and elongate her legs”.
Christian launched his beauty products by signing in with Marcus and Manuel Puig. Who also covers brands like Nina Ricci, Shakira perfumes and so on.
The design of the nail polish is through a collaboration with David Lynch. Christain designed fetish heels that are impossible to walk on. David Lynch arranged the photoshoot of these unwearable shoes.
Christian Louboutin Nail Polish Collection – Rouge Louboutin is inspired by these unwearable fetish heels.
4. Art! It’s a more exciting topic than you think.
5. Look around you! Architecture is an important topic that makes you attractive.
Architecture, you see it everywhere. Great topic; why you don’t talk about it?
The Dancing House is a most interesting story.
This building where “The Nationale Nederlanden” established got its name from the two dancers Fred & Ginger.
The designer of “The Dancing House” is Vlado Milunić, if you want to know this. In 1945 the building was bombed by the U.S.
In 1992 the idea was born to build a static and dynamic part. A sort of Yin & Yang idea. But the whole idea is to represent the two dancers in the building.
Ever heard of Santiago Calatrava??? I’m sure if you see one of his architectural buildings you would recognise them.
Human and natural shapes inspire Santiago modern architecture. His architects are recognisable because he uses lots of white and glass.
The National Museum of Qatar is unique because it can open and close depending on how much sunlight it gets.
He also gets inspired by birds. You can see this in two of his architectures: The Milwaukee art Museum and the Transit Hub. He designed this for the World Trade Center.
I hope you get a lot of inspiration by reading this.
There are a lot of interesting things to talk about. You don’t have to be an expert and know everything. When you have a conversation, you don’t want to talk all the time.
A woman with high standards doesn’t claim all the attention. She just says enough to keep the momentum going and use her most powerful trait. That is to listen well and ask questions.
Conclusion
There are lots of exciting topics to talk about on any occasion. Talking about topics no one expects makes you more interesting and irresistible.
With these topics and many more, you’ll always have something to talk about. You’ll notice how easily it is to keep a conversation interesting.
Choose a topic that really interests you. This won’t give you an awkward feeling. With that in mind, you are good to go.
Which of the topics interest you the most. Would you choose one of these topics to break the ice?